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Life & Career coaching to help you grow confidence, stability, and self-leadership.

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If your career looks fine on paper but feels off in your body…
You’re not alone.

You’ve worked hard to get where you are. You’ve done the right things, met the deadlines, and kept the team running when no one else would step up.
On paper, your career looks fine. But inside, you’re exhausted. Frustrated. Wondering if this is all there is.

Maybe you’re struggling with:
– Feeling invisible in leadership meetings, even when you know your stuff
– Second-guessing yourself when it’s time to take up space
– Working harder and harder, but still feeling like it’s not enough
– A toxic boss or a chaotic team that drains your energy
– Wondering if it’s time to leave or if you could actually build something better where you are

I spent 16+ years in leadership roles in tech and startups. I know how lonely it feels to be the one everyone relies on, but no one really sees.

Career coaching with me isn’t about polishing your LinkedIn profile or hyping yourself up. It’s about finding clarity in what you actually want, and the courage to go after it.

Let’s help you thrive in a way that’s real and sustainable. Book a chemistry session.

 

“Working with Ikey as my coach was truly eye-opening and saved me from heading down a career path that wouldn't have made me happy in the long run. I'm so glad I had her guidance and truly thankful for her capability of elevating other human beings."
- Anda B.

The Work We’ll Do, Together

Leading with clarity and directness

No people-pleasing, no being the office nanny.

Owning your voice in the room

Speak up to gain growth and recognition.

Creating a life where work is important...

But not the only thing that defines you.

Navigating toxic work environments

With less stress and more choice.

Setting healthy boundaries

Saying no without burning bridges.

Deciding what’s next

Stay, go, or redesign your role from the inside

What I Bring to the Table

I spent 16+ years in tech leadership, building remote teams, leading through chaos, and trying to create work environments where people could thrive, and not just survive.
I know the pressure of being the calm one in the storm, and the cost it can take on your mind, your energy, and your relationships.

I’ve been where you are.
— Trying to hold it all together, thinking I was a superhuman, but slowly burning out.
— Making work my whole life and allowing it to spill into my relationships and life.
— Burning out in toxic environments that demanded too much.

Now, as a trauma-informed, relational coach, I combine practical leadership experience with deep inner work.

I am trained in and draw from:
— Career & Life Coaching (ICF Certified Coach)
— Relational Life Therapy (RLT fully trained)
— Parts work & inner child work (RRP)
— Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)

To help you build:
✔ Resilience that doesn’t require perfection
✔ Boundaries that hold
✔ And relationships, at work and in life, that feel honest and real.

This isn’t your typical leadership coaching.
It’s real, sometimes uncomfortable work, and it changes how you lead your life, at work and at home.


"Ikey has had such an impact on my personal and professional life, she has not only helped me strengthen my confidence, but also reminded me of who I am and what I am capable of.
Ikey has an extraordinary ability to read you and call you out in the most real and loving way, while providing the necessary reassurance and support that you are ok and that you are capable of reaching new heights.
I am truly forever grateful to her, for how she has handled my challenges, her incredible humanity and empathic approach, and for pointing to my victories when I was too overwhelmed to see them for myself."
- Rita M.

Need help right now?

If you’re not ready to dive into coaching, start here.

This free 5-part email series will help you untangle overwhelm, set better boundaries, and trust yourself more at work, without adding to your to-do list.

  1. What’s your unmet need? Overwhelm isn’t just stress - it’s a signal. Learn how to decode it.

  2. Boundaries aren’t walls. Protect your energy without guilt (and stop over-functioning at work).

  3. Your boss is not your parent. Why you feel “in trouble” at work, and how to step out of that mindset.

  4. If this feels weird, you’re on the right track. Rethinking imposter syndrome and why self-doubt isn’t failure.

  5. Now what? How to make better decisions, trust yourself, and take this forward.
Book a free chemistry session and start your growth journey.
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