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Ikey Greene

Relational, life, and career coach.

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Ikey

I’m an ICF-certified, trauma-informed coach who helps people untangle the mess of life, love, and work. My approach is rooted in evidence-based practices and lived experience — not just theory.

In my 40+ years on this wild planet, I’ve lived many lives across three continents. I’ve started over more times than I can count, built homes from scratch (sometimes literally, sometimes emotionally), and searched for that elusive sense of belonging. I eventually found it - not in perfect circumstances, but in learning how to feel at home in myself.

My early life wasn’t easy. Like many of my clients, I didn’t grow up with a roadmap for healthy relationships or emotional safety. I lived through early abandonment, narcissistic abuse, addiction, mental illness, suicide, emotional volatility, and neglect. I learned too young how to be the responsible one, the “mature beyond my years” kid who keeps everything together. I spent years in therapy feeling seen, but not always helped... learning how to name the pain but not always how to heal it.

I carried all of this into adulthood. Into my relationships, my work in tech leadership, and my inner world. I built a career where I was known for being calm in chaos and helping my teams grow. But underneath, I was still figuring out how to feel safe, loved, and enough.

Eventually, I got tired of surviving and started learning how to really live. I did the work to reclaim who I am, heal old patterns, and build something healthier, both in my personal life and in my career. That’s what I help my clients do, too.

Today, I help people navigate the messy, beautiful work of being human: finding clarity in confusion, softness in struggle, and practical ways to move forward. Whether we’re talking career crossroads, relationship tangles, or just how to get through the week without losing yourself, I’m here to help.

 

“I’m honestly amazed by how much has shifted in such a short time. I came in feeling stuck and unsure where to even start, and now I’m seeing myself handle things I used to avoid. This work is helping me reconnect with who I actually want to be.”
- C.L.

Qualifications

Core Modalities

  • Relational Life Therapy (RLT): Level 3 (Relational Life Institute). RLT is a practical, no-nonsense approach to relationships. Instead of just talking about what’s wrong, it teaches you how to build something better — with real skills, honest conversations, and a focus on deeper connection. Originally developed for couples, it works just as well for family, friendships, and your relationship with yourself.

  • Trauma-Informed Coaching: Certified at PCC level through the International Coaching Federation (ICF), with over 1,000 coaching hours.

  • Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT): A powerful mindfulness-based approach I draw from when it fits, helping clients connect with their values and move through life’s messiness with more clarity.

Certifications & Professional Development

  • Trained in the Relationship Recovery Program (RRP) – A model developed by Amanda Curtin, LICSW, focused on healing and growth through deep work centered around childhood trauma recovery (Patrick Teahan)
  • The Relational Brain by Terry Real and Julianne Taylor - The Neurobiology of RLT and How It Works To Rewire Your Brain (Relational Life Institute)
  • Working With Grandiosity (Relational Life Institute) 
  • Building Better Boundaries (Relational Life Institute) 
  • The Art of Relational Living (Relational Life Institute) 
  • Real Self-Esteem (Relational Life Institute)
  • How to Work with a Client's Emotional Triggers (National Institute for the Clinical Application of Behavioral Medicine)
  • Working with the Pain of Abandonment (National Institute for the Clinical Application of Behavioral Medicine)
  • Working With Core Beliefs of 'Never Good Enough' (National Institute for the Clinical Application of Behavioral Medicine)
  • How to Work with a Client's Resistance (National Institute for the Clinical Application of Behavioral Medicine)
  • Member of the RLT community led by Terry Real
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